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(#70) Live By Design Not Default - Stop Letting Fear Make Decisions For You with Adrienne Adhami
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(#70) Live By Design Not Default - Stop Letting Fear Make Decisions For You with Adrienne Adhami

Ever felt completely stuck, telling yourself, "I just don't know what to do"? For ambitious people, this feeling of confusion can be paralyzing. But what if it isn't a lack of clarity at all?

In a game-changing episode of the Confident and Killing It Podcast, host Tiwa Adebayo sits down with decision-making expert Adrienne Adhami to dismantle this myth. They reveal that what we often label as "confusion" is actually fear in a clever disguise—a comfortable story we tell ourselves to avoid the risk of a big decision.


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(#68) 5 Signs you’ve outgrown something + what to do about it
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(#68) 5 Signs you’ve outgrown something + what to do about it

Feeling stuck, unmotivated, or disconnected? This isn't a sign of failure—it's a sign of growth. In this powerful episode, Tiwalola unpacks the 5 undeniable signs you've outgrown a situation (career, relationship, or routine) and the real reason comfort is keeping you stuck. Learn how to spot emotional misalignment before burnout hits and get a practical 4-step action plan to move forward with clarity and courage. It's time to stop shrinking to fit, silence your inner critic, and boldly make space for what truly aligns with the person you're becoming.

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(#57) Bamboozled by soft life
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(#57) Bamboozled by soft life

Is the soft life really that soft? Hustling nonstop isn’t the answer—but neither is avoiding the work required to grow. Here’s how to find the balance between ambition and peace.

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